Monday, December 28, 2009

The Fight

Jason and I had a fight. It certainly wasn't the first, and I know it won't be the last, but it was more intense than previous squabbles. We both yelled. I cried. I thought about leaving to stay with a friend, but instead I barricaded myself in the bedroom with a new crochet project and old Christmas movies to make me feel better. I was so upset that I couldn't get to bed until 3 a.m. Jason chose to sleep in the living room. The next day I stayed in bed, leaving only to sneak meals and snack on chocolate.

In the end, it lasted fewer than 24 hours. We each had gotten some space after the cramped Christmas holiday and had time to ourselves to do what we wanted. Time apart, that's what we needed. We yelled some more, but this time we listened, understood, and eventually apologized.

I don't like fighting, especially with Jason, but sometimes it's important because it helps you learn things. It helps you learn things about the other person and yourself....

Christmas 2009

Ah, Christmas. I observed your coming with the usual festivities: gathering and listening of holiday tunes, watching all the Christmas movies in my collection, putting together the Christmas puzzle, selecting and trimming the tree, baking Christmas cookies, sending greeting cards to family and friends, and visiting the Magic Tree. But, Christmas really wouldn't be complete without a magical Christmas performance from Lauren...


Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Good News/Bad News

Jason woke me up with some Good News/Bad News: "Bad news is there's a snake in the house. Good news is I caught it."

Thank goodness for a calm, level-headed husband and a not-so-big snake. If it was going to happen, I'm glad it was a small lined snake and not a long black snake like the one my sister found in my parents' house.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Par-tay!

When we got a Christmas party invitation from Erin Ross, I was super-excited! It had been a while since our scattered group of college friends had all been together. The hostess with the mostest suggested that everyone meet in the middle (Columbia, halfway between KC and STL) and bring their favorite Christmas cookies to share in a cookie exchange.

Erin had warm cider waiting for us when we arrived. Instead of dividing the cookies up straight away, we talked to A.J., who is serving as a missionary in Japan, while we munched on the cookie selection: pistachio, molasses, no-bake and Irish whiskey drop cookies. A.J. had funny stories, as usual, including his experiences with Japanese earthquakes and living above a market and "dollar" store. I sure miss him sometimes, but it was nice to visit with him during the party. It was like he was there!

It's crazy how much catching up there was to do! We didn't watch movies or play any games; we just talked and talked and talked. And we opened presents. Tracy brought the girls some amazing organic bath bubbles and bombs, and Jason and I regifted a few things around our house that we hoped would find a little more love in someone else's home. We took a break to go see the Magic Tree, which is a tradition I developed the last few years I was in town.

I'm so thankful for the friends I have and so indebted to Erin (and Bella the cat) for hosting such a fabulous party!

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Let your light shine!

I'm a sucker for lighting displays around the holidays. Probably because I'm too cheap to put up my own lights! Anyway, we're lucky that we have a couple of friends who are familiar with the area to show us the Christmas ropes. Mandi and Jason Holderieath took us to a Blue Springs neighborhood that not only had a display that told the Christmas story of Jesus' birth, but chronicled his life story of learning, teaching, being crucified and rising again. We also went to Christmas in the Park at Longview Lake Park. It took us TWO hours to get into the park (we went on the weekend), but it was the biggest display I had ever seen! Snowmen doffing their hats, skiers on snowy peaks, Peanuts characters ice skating. I'm sad that I didn't get any photos, but next year I'll be prepared!

Monday, December 14, 2009

Operation: Christmas Tree

Personally, I don't feel like it's really Christmas until there's a Christmas tree in my living room. One that's decorated with garland, colored lights (preferably blinking), ornaments commemorating significant events of years gone by, and is topped with an angel. And it has to smell like Christmas.

Because this is our first Christmas in Oak Grove, I had no idea where to buy a tree. I called Brian out of desperation to find a place that sells trees because I hadn't seen them at the Wal-Marts nearby. He suggested Ben's Landscaping in Blue Springs, so Jason and I took the truck.

Now, Jason and I have shopped for Christmas trees together before. Once or twice we selected one from CAFNR's Forestry Club lot to show support for the college. Other times we've grabbed one from the selection at Wal-Mart because it was easy to pick up on the way home from work. These times were spent looking over the trees very carefully before we committed to the one we would purchase. That is why I was very surprised when we arrived at the tree lot and Jason gave me three minutes to pick the tree!

Three minutes! I can't wrap a small Christmas present in that amount of time! How could he expect me to pick the perfect tree that would live in our house for nearly three weeks and be the sole representation of the season?! I had hoped that we would spend time selecting the tree together. After all, he was deployed last year. Nope.

"One tree," he said pointing to the Charlie Brown Christmas trees in the front corner, "decorated at our house would look just as good as the next one." And he pointed to the tall, full pine trees I was trying to decide between.

He almost had me convinced that I was too emotionally attached to the idea of the perfect tree...and then I came to my senses, picked the pine that measured up to my height and fullness standards and fell within our price range and made him carry it to the cash register...all before my three minutes were up!

Now the tree is standing in our front room, decorated with garland, colored lights and ornaments commemorating significant events of years gone by. It's topped with Grandma Mary's angel and it smells like Christmas.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

A good husband shovels snow...

...without being asked!

Last night was the first accumulation of any kind, so on our random Wal-Mart run for groceries, we picked up a couple bags of ice melt for the driveway. When we got home, Jason helped get the bags inside and immediately got to work shoveling the walk while I put away groceries and did some inside chores.

This morning, he cleared the way again and cleaned off my car! What a wonderful husband!

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

FRG family day - Christmas

The 311th HHD celebrated the 2009 holidays at drill this weekend. Soldiers and their families brought desserts and side dishes to go with the meal provided. Captain and commander, Jason had to help serve food.

For the kids, there were arcade games and a bounce house. I also brought supplies to make Christmas crafts, like ornaments and magnetic picture frames. I was surprised at how much the kids enjoyed such simple crafts. I wish I had photos to show you their creations, but we were busy making art! Santa arrived after lunch to talk with the kids, hand out presents and pose for photos.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Ragtag premiere of LIT

My friend and bowling buddy, Brian Maurer, is a budding film director. He recently wrote, directed and produced his first full-length feature film. The premiere was at the Ragtag in Columbia, Mo. He was hoping that there would be a large enough crowd that he wouldn't be embarrassed. In fact, the movie sold out, and they had to turn people away!

The movie, LIT, was produced on a "Velcro" budget, as Brian likes to say, which is apparently smaller than a shoestring budget. Everything was done on the cheap. Actors and crew came from the local community theatre and students at the university. The music in the film was created by Jake Oakes.


I enjoyed the movie and I'm proud to say I got the first autographed DVD.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Thankful indeed!

This year's Thanksgiving celebrations were a little more meaningful as Mom had just gotten out of the hospital. The good news is no cancer! We had fun visiting with family at Meneely Thanksgiving and Schad Thanksgiving. Plus, Lauren, Jason and I found some time to sneak out to the Eldon bowling alley for a couple games.

Friday, December 4, 2009

A visit from the Southern Stapps

Before Thanksgiving, the Southern Stapps came to visit us. David, Stefani, Oliver and Bella stayed with us for a few days as they made their rounds to family and friends in Missouri. We sure kept busy!

Oliver and Bella had fun playing with my Slinky and balloons leftover from Jason's birthday celebration. We watched movies and played in the park. Oliver had fun playing with my high heels, too!






We also baked some cookies to take to the Concordia Fire Station. We visited with Jim and Deb and checked out the big trucks and the ambulances. Oliver even tried on a fireman's helmet!

The last thing we did was go to the mall together. Oliver and Bella got their photos taken with Santa. (Oliver cried.) Then Oliver played in the kids area and Jason and I took him on a carousel ride. (Oliver cried again.)

It was so fun to see the family again!



Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Stash bust! OR Amanda's blanket of many colors

In my limited downtime, I am crocheting a colorful ripple afghan made of yarn given to me and leftover from various projects. I think it's kind of ugly, but I still like it. Plus, when I'm finished it will keep someone warm, and I'll have room for new yarn for new projects. Yeah!

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Surprise!!!

While Jason was gone to class Monday night, I baked him a birthday cake, wrapped presents and decorated the house with balloons and streamers. After I sang "Happy Birthday" and he blew out his candles, he started opening presents: Dove chocolate, a pumpkin dessert and a calendar.



His favorite present was the calendar. Fist pump for Goats in Trees!







Sunday, November 1, 2009

Jason's Birthday Weekend

Jason just turned the big 2-7 and his only special request for his birthday weekend was a trip to the art museum. Nothing special for dinner, no gift he was yearning for, just a trip to the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Definitely a do-able request.
We went to Kansas City on Halloween and spent a very nice fall afternoon admiring sculptures on the museum lawn. We also caught a tour of works by American artists such as Thomas Hart Benton and George Caleb Bingham and then explored a little on our own.
At home, we finally did something with the pumpkin we picked out from the store. It had been sitting in our garage for days and I was feeling a little sad for it. Jason and I agreed that it was too late in the day, and we were too lazy to carve something clever into the pumpkin, so we took a friend's advice and drew a Pi sign on the pumpkin. (Get it? Pumpkin Pi(e)?) It kind of represents Jason's school experience these past months.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Missouri Photo Workshop

The Missouri Photo Workshop, started in 1949, is an opportunity for photographers to hone their craft by capturing a story in small Missouri town under the direction of well-known and well-respected professionals in their field. They have a week and a limited number of frames to find a story, develop a relationship of trust with their subjects and capture moments that tell the story. At night, the photographers go over the day's shoot with their mentors and learn from praise, suggestions and criticism. It really is a baptism by fire. Photographers have to be good to be accepted to the workshop, and they always leave better. One of these days I want to be one of those photographers.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Original by Oliver

I just got the best birthday present ever: an original by Oliver.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Wii would like to play!

We got the Dr. Mario game so I could practice and not be decimated in games against the Meneelys, Kerrs and Maurers. However, Jason determined that I needed to take frequent breaks from gaming, and he often enforced this idea by stealing the remote and taking control of the game. Always looking out for me...

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Love and Theft

The last couple of weeks a group called Love and Theft has been getting some significant air play on the country stations that I listen to with their first single, "Runaway." I'm pretty excited for them because I like their music AND they were super-nice to me and Flat Jason when they played Columbia around my birthday last year.
Check out their blog from the road.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Oktoberfest and the weekend

I'm not going to lie. I was disappointed in Oktoberfest. Unbelievably disappointed. I had been looking forward to it for weeks, literally. I imagined crisp autumn air, leaves changing colors in the sunshine and the streets of a small German town teeming with visitors shopping, eating, drinking, dancing.

Instead, much to my dismay, the one and only real booth outside was the Hermann Lions Club, who couldn't even get three brats cooked all at the same time to sell to multiple customers. This was the art walk weekend, but the art was not on the street; it was the usual art that can be found in the shops on most days in Hermann. Plus, you'd think that a town and festival known for drinking would have drink specials...not so much...and you had to go into all the little restaurants and pubs to figure out what was available.

The only redeeming part of the festival was the Hermannhof Festhalle, a beautiful old stone and wood hall with a stage and a dance floor. An ompa band was playing German music for the afternoon. Visitors and costumed locals whirled around the floor to the polkas the band played. It was like Lawrence Welk on steroids!


At one point the bandleader stopped the band, and all the costumed men came down to join the women for some traditional dances, including a dance about sausages which you can see in the photo. The group is called the Rhineland Wurstjaegers and has been around for nearly 60 years. The sausage dance dates back to the Faschnacht celebration, the night before Lent began, that was held in Rhineland, a neighboring town of Hermann, when the townspeople did their own butchering. During the butchering time, a large sausage was made specifically for the dancers. The men would go from door to door and ask for sausage in song. They hung the sausages on a pole and sang and danced through the streets. The men would end up at the town hall where the women cooked the sausage and their favorite German dishes for a big community supper. After supper everyone danced German dances until midnight when the festivities ceased because no dancing was permitted during Lent. The dancers also fasted during the Lenten season.


We stopped by the Tin Mill Brewing Company and shared a beer on their terrace. Jason spied on people drinking on Hermannhof's hill before an old friend found us. Lucas used to work at Wal-Mart, but now he is a chef at Jina Yoo's in Columbia.



We left the festival pretty early so we caught the new Michael Moore film, Capitalism: A Love Story, which I would recommend. While I didn't agree with the entire film, Moore did make a few good points and seemed to be pretty politically unbiased where he laid the blame. We also went to the Ragtag to see It Might Get Loud, a film about three musicians, Jack White, The Edge and Jimmy Page. It's their biographies, musical experiences, hopes, dreams, ideas. I only knew of Jack White from the White Stripes, but it was really interesting. Another must-see.

And finally, I must mention our hospitable hosts for the weekend. We stayed at the Hotel de Maurer. There was much gaming of the board and video variety, plus some eating and fish watching on the side. We had a great time. Thank you!

For more photos, click here.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

It's the small things that make up a life together

The other day Jason came home with flowers for no particular reason. Another time, he stayed late at the office to finish a bracelet he made to surprise me. And every morning I wake up with kisses. I love being told "I love you" in these ways.


Wednesday, October 14, 2009

The weekend













I spent the weekend with my sister...on her dormroom floor. Ahhh...college life. We stayed up late, shot a wedding, went dancing, ate breakfast at 1:30 a.m. at IHOP, crashed and burned, spent a ridiculous amount of time at the laundromat, and made a trip to the mall. We never made it to the Hartsburg Pumpkin Festival. Maybe next year...

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Singing in the Rain

Singing in the Rain is my all-time favorite movie and, in my opinion, one of the best musicals there is. When I was younger, I watched it over and over until I could recite it and imitate some of the dance moves. So, you could imagine how excited I was when JabbaWockeeZ danced to the movie's title song on Dancing with the Stars. Considering his athleticism, innovative dancing and creativity, I think Gene Kelly would really have appreciated what they did with it.
 
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